Step into your next chapter with ease & confidence

High-touch mentorship to help you navigate life’s twists & reconnect with what lights you up, without second-guessing yourself

Hey, friend.

You don’t have to stay stuck.

For years, you’ve handled things. You’ve crafted a great life that’s full. But something’s shifting. The way you’ve always lived doesn’t feel quite right anymore. Lately, it’s more routine than magic.

I’m here with a cozy nudge to help you stir up a new vib. Think connection, meaning, & a lighter step all while holding onto what matters most. Let’s turn that restlessness into a journey worth taking.

What happens if nothing changes?

If you keep coasting, here’s what’s at stake:

Drifting further from who you are

Picture those quiet moments piling up—where you feel less like you & more like a stranger in your own life, stuck on autopilot while that vibrant side slips away.

Missing the warmth you crave

Think of your days staying cool & distant. The distance between you & the people you love keeps growing—your partner, friends, even yourself.

Letting your big idea fade away

Imagine that dream or next step you’ve been mulling over just sitting there—unseen & untouched—while you wonder what could’ve been, 10 years down the road.

What’s waiting for you on the other side?

Imagine coming home to the yourself, full of fresh energy & real connection, easing you through life’s twists with a steady hand. Here’s what that looks like:

Feel alive in your own skin

Imagine slipping into a version of you that’s energized & soft, rediscovering a sensual, vibrant side that’s been waiting, all while keeping your world steady.

Love your days & the people in them

Picture a life where connection’s easy—deeper ties with your husband, friends, or biz crew—wrapped in a purpose that lights you up without extra hustle.

Step out with a quiet (or bold!) courage

Think of showing up clear & true, whether it’s in your work or your next big move—finding an ease-filled confidence that fits you, no overhaul needed.

We’re not meant to go solo

You’re uber-capable so you try to figure out stuff on your own. But even the strongest women need a wingwoman to reflect back their blind spots, untangle the noise, & hold space for their next step.

That's where I come in.

Meet your Guide

Jill Martin
Midlife Feminine Mentor

For over a decade, I’ve been helping women like you navigate change & create a life that feels aligned & meaningful. I know what it’s like to juggle a pretty great life until one day things feel way off: “Who’s life did I step into? This is not me. This cannot be it.” I thought the answer to the longing for more was doing more—add to my morning routine, learning & reading more, trying harder—but all it did was leave me unsure & stuck. Turns out, the shift wasn’t about doing—it was about connecting to what’s true.

Now, I’m here to walk beside you—helping you tune in, ask the right questions & see what’s been there all along—so you can find your energy, grow closer to your loved ones, & let your gifts shine. Lover of firepit hangs & straight talk—I’m here as your wingwoman for this next chapter.

Qualifications 
  • Newfield Certified Ontological Coach (way of being)

  • AlchemE Mentor® FieldSpeak™ facilitator (energetics)

  • MSc specializing in behaviour change

What clients say

Ways to work together

Find Your Flow

Feminine life & transitions
$2400 | 3 months

Feel like you’ve lost touch with what lights you up? This is for you if you’re ready to swap feeling flat for easing into a softer, intuitive, & more meaningful life.

Or maybe you’re in the thick of a messy, magical shift—new chapter, big change, total reimagination. We’ll weave it all together—body, mind, emotions, & spirit—into feeling alive, creative, & connected to your loved ones & your path.

    • Navigating life, biz, or love pivots

    • Tired of old ruts & wanting something fresh

    • After more ease, a little magic every day & a bigger yes

    • Two 60-minute calls each month

    • Comprehensive intake to map your starting point

    • Every session shaped to your unique story

    • Eclectic mix of modalities & playful homework tailored to you—from evidence-based tools & somatics to spiritual & energetic approaches (eg, astrology, quantum healing)

    • Weekday DM support for those in-between moments

    • Bonus: quarterly visioning session for package renewals

FieldSpeak™

Energetics of effortless change
$0 | 60-min call (Limited beta pricing)

Experience how the energy you bring into each moment shapes your unfolding reality. By learning to observe & direct your personal energeticsyour unique recipes—what once felt impossible becomes effortless.

The changes you’ve been chasing suddenly align & your capacity to manifest opportunities, abundance, and beyond unlocks.

    • You’re curious about the relationship between how you observe yourself – emotions, thoughts, goals, roles – & impacting others

    • You want to explore and practice energetic mastery in your life.

    • You’ve been exposed to Donny Epstein’s work: The Seekers Codebook or the free Energetics of Instant Change 5 Day Challenge.

    • An initial 60-min session

    • Exploration of the energetics of four domains of life: intimacy/relationships, health/body sense, business/finance, impacting humanity.

    • Subsequent 30-min sessions

    • Weekday DM support

    • Homework to practice

Here’s how we begin

01 | Fill out the application & book a call

Start by filling out the application form—it’s a chance for me to get to know & best serve you. Then book a call so we can connect & explore what’s next.

02 | Personalized consultation

We’ll start our meaningful partnership with a comprehensive intake to see what’s present & connect with the future

03 | Your tailored mentoring journey

With an eclectic blend of modalities, ongoing support, & intuitive guidance we’ll create a path that works for you.

FAQS

You’ve got questions. I’ve got answers.

  • You bet. Please mention this on our initial call together.

  • Book an Insight Call with me to discuss if working together is right for you: ascendi.co/lets-chat

    For Feminine Life & Transitions & AlchemE Mentor sessions, I offer a select number of pro bono and discounted sessions each month.

    • You’re not into exploring your edges or trying out unconventional ways of seeing your world

    • You want traditional results-based or C-suite executive coaching, where you set a desired outcome (eg, hit an income milestone) at the beginning of the coaching relationship. Often these goals are coming from a less coherent version of yourself.

    • You’re looking for expert advice, tactics, or strategies right off the bat — the how-tos. We first start with coherence & alignment with your bigger why, then the hows & whos will appear.

    •  You’re unwilling to be lovingly challenged. The truth will set you free.

    • You expect a transformation within the time-constraints of a single call. Disrupting an old pattern may require time to marinade in the real world. Part of our work is to start noticing when shifts happen outside of our calls.

  • I come from the world of traditional results-based or C-suite executive coaching, where you set a desired outcome (eg, hit an income milestone) at the beginning of the coaching relationship. Often these goals are coming from a less coherent version of yourself.

    The work we’ll do together goes beyond this paradigm. I’m not about strategies, fixing, or following a set framework. We’ll co-create a spacious, intuitive process designed to help you see more clearly, trust yourself & move in a way that feels right for you.

  • You don’t have to … & that’s part of what we can look at. Most people come in with a feeling—restlessness, uncertainty, or a pull toward something more. We’ll explore together & uncover what’s next for you.

1:1 Mentorship

Let’s make it yours

The life you want isn’t ‘someday’—it’s ready for you now. Let’s start.

Pick what feels good, or hop on a call to sort it out. It’s just us, a coffee, & a chat about what’s next.